My girlfriend thinks she’s a little overweight at only 125, but wants to slim down in her waist, butt and thighs… it would be great if you could send some advice my way or refer me to an already existing plan to help her out. also, she thinks that NOT eating is going to help her… maybe hearing from a credible source that nuitrition is a necessity and could help her lose weight would change her mind on her plan.
Losing weight for a gal who is only slightly overweight is all so simple, but takes a lot of time and articulation to outline. Summed up, it requires consistent exercise, right eating and devotion. Those who have difficulty with discipline and patience and motivation fall to the wayside, and the wayside is crowded — piled high.
Your girlfriend needs to know that starvation diets are truly harmful, cause muscle loss, hormonal dysfunction, low resistance, diminished energy, unclear thinking, depression and irritability to say the least; the weight-loss is temporary and soon the starvation process is dangerously repeated. One must eat right always — high protein foods (poultry, fish, eggs, red meat, milk products) carbs high in nutrients (fresh vegetables and some fruit, maybe small portions of oats, beans and nuts). Eat often, but not a lot at a sitting. No sugar and no junk and no smokes and lots of water. These are rules to live by.
Exercise daily. This should include 20 to 30 minutes aerobic exercise (walking or jogging is the best, treadmill and stationary bike work — shorter High Intensity Interval Training, AKA — HIIT, is best method to apply). To build desirable and attractive, injury resistant, functional and life-sustaining muscle, people need to exercise with weights and resistance equipment. It’s fun, easy to learn and most rewarding. It adds vitality and vigor to the body and mind, teaches you who you are, builds character and fat-burning, shapely muscle.
Train the whole body with a small handful of fulfilling exercises (pick four from my favorite variety-pac, sets and reps: dumbbell incline presses, stiffarm dumbbell pullovers, seated lat row, widegrip pull downs, machine dips, barbell curls and full squats). Rotate workouts every 4 to 6 weeks. The tummy, butt and waist line will respond much better to form change when the whole body is working and building muscle. Very soon the gym and working out will become a familiar and respected tool… a dance, a love affair.
It takes time, but what’s the rush? Exercise is a wonderful diversion when you’re young and able. It’s a hellish chore when you’re old, fat and broken down.
Stop here! Don’t you get it?
Reread the last thought or two. Please. Don’t wait till it’s too late. Think I’m being harsh or overly dramatic? Look around you. Do you want to look like the mobs of desperate, sallow-eyed, enervated people walking the streets, malls and airports in every neighborhood across the globe?
Be thankful you are not and choose not to be, that you are in control, know what to do, and enjoy doing it. Be thankful, pretty lady. You’re safe. Exercise, eat right and look, feel and be sharp.
Gotta go, kids. Be strong and God’s speed… Dave Draper